It is very important to see the works in other people eyes. Because from our own eyes, what we see is based on what we think about the idea of the project. So we have the clear logic process of the idea. But on the other hand, the other people who are the first time to see the art work, they don’t have the ability to jump into our brain to understand what happen in the work. All they know is the most obvious concept of the work, but they can’t get the deep meaning of it, or some people misunderstand the work. Both of them might happen. So at this kind of moment, it is quite important to ask other different people’s idea to the work. Even the same object, different people view the object in a different way, which is based on the different experience.

On the other hand, the public should be the majority to watch the project, it is very useful to ask them what they see in the project. When the audiences have the different idea to the artist, the artist should fix the project to let the audiences to see it in artist’s way. Also as a designer, we design things for others, it is a key point to consider what the consumers needs. If we take the consumers perspectives, it is easier to get the basic idea of what people want.

People all have different characters, not only because they are all individuals, but also the environment that they grew up were totally different. The family are the two main reasons that build people’s personalities step by step. The family,  the education and friends are the first teachers of child, which might be more influential than teachers in school. The education before school shapes the base of “self”. The combine of education and friends will both develop one person’s personality by time.

Since children come to the world, children spend their majority time to stay with their parents. So all the stuff that kids know from the conversation between parents before 6 or 7 years old. Mom and Dad usually are the first words that children could pronounce, the reason of that is parents keep teaching that! Mom and Dad are the most frequent words parents repeated in front of babies. Which caused the first pronounce might be mom or dad. Based on that result, children learn a lot of things from parents, or on the other way, children copy the way of parents acting. All the stuff from parents are the key element to shape the self.

Education and friends usually work together, because before the personality become stable, people spend most of time in school. So people have such a educational environment, they have teachers to teach them and they have friends to communicate with. Teachers usually tell students what is right and what is wrong, those kind of general ideas and also the way of thinking. Teachers help students build or develop the idea of self, so children can be more mature in the common sense. Friends usually play as a group, once people are in certain group, eventually they will be effected by their friends. Sometimes, good friends can be a guide of one person’s life, or tutor; bad friends can change one person’s personality very easily, bad friends can lead a person to the hell. During teenage time, teachers and friends are both very important element to shape the self.

Parents make the base of children’s personalities, teachers and friends both effect the base of personalities, and start to shape the self on the same time. There are the three main reasons that shape the self of me.