1) A list (made as you listen) of all the things that happen / steps that the narrator, Starlee Kine, takes, and
how to feel better:
something so satisfying when listening to sad songs
they make you feel less alone
they don’t judge you – they tell you ur better off without him
she didn’t want to feel better, she wanted to wallow – turning off phone and turning on the sad sad music
songs articulate feelings she didn’t know she had
after listening for months – she had to write one her self
needed to take charge
be the songs – be the pains
be in the stereo – she wanted to be the lyrics going into her own head
most desperate songs – pitiful – pathetic
felt good to hear others’ pain
how to write it?
went to phil collins – how to write a good break up songs
email collins
met in person
told him the whole story
= shared pain
he also wrote his first song from a divorce
started writing – everything gelt wrong
scribbled lines down when doing everyday things
lack of musical ability – asked around for help
read lines she wrote with others
tried it with a melody
it worked
played it for phil collins
2) A short paragraph reflecting on what her process was and why she took the steps she did.
Starlee Kine wrote a break up song because she wanted to be her own lyrics that go into her head. She spent months wallowing in sad songs she wanted to take charge and put all her thoughts down that came together in a song. Once her boyfriend broke up with her all the sign came flying back of all the warning signs, cliches, and corny moments that made her feel silly. She thought she was heart broken before, but wasn’t compared to this one. Once she was broken up, she realized break up songs were everywhere and realized they were all relatable. She had no music ability or talent but she was determined to make something of this horrible break up.